I heard once that happiness is the best revenge. I couldn’t see how that possible until I saw other happy people gleefully living their lives, staying present with their loved one and unaware, if not unaffected by any negativity surrounding them.
Imagine how this feels, so get happy quick.
Never feel guiilty for beginning to feel happier as others others around you begin leaving your life and you leaving theirs. You shouldn’t sink down to their level, especially if you have revenge on your mind. It’s a trap that can be easily fallen into.
What doesn’t work is direct revenge. This energy is put back upon you by the universe and hits you hard. You create a force of negativity and that creates counter force. Ouch..
- Can’t I feel justified or even or feel happy that bad things happened to them? (after all, I didn’t cause them myself) No… You not only hurt the one you’re vengeful at, but you hurt yourself too. You used negativity and got nothing out of it except a temporary feeling of superiority.
- You want to brag, show off, gloat, or do other things to show someone how wonderful your life is and how much better you are without them. This is another trap. You’re coming from a place of psychological lack, even if you now have money, or have a new boyfriend, or have a new car…etc…. Your revenge again is creating force and counter force. Most likely the person will not be taken by your new external situation, will still hold power of you, and you’ll feel pretty damn bad, but with new shiny objects that you thought made you truly happy for a while.
You know you’re getting revenge when your true level of happiness is that so you don’t care about getting revenge anymore and you’ve psychologically moved on and improved your own life. It’s a paradox of course that you get your revenge by leaving revenge behind, but it’s very true. Now, revenge is had, but you don’t dwell in those lower emotional states since rising to your newer ones. So get happy: here is how.











